add delegated_subsystem! macro to ease delegating subsystems

Unfortunately, it doesn't work right:

```
error[E0446]: private type `CandidateBackingJob` in public interface
   --> node/core/backing/src/lib.rs:775:1
    |
86  | struct CandidateBackingJob {
    | - `CandidateBackingJob` declared as private
...
775 | delegated_subsystem!(CandidateBackingJob as CandidateBackingSubsystem);
    | ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ can't leak private type
```

I'm not sure precisely what's going wrong, here; I suspect the problem is
the use of `$job as JobTrait>::RunArgs` and `::ToJob`; the failure would be
that it's not reifying the types to verify that the actual types are public,
but instead referring to them via `CandidateBackingJob`, which is in fact private;
that privacy is the point.

Going to see if I can generic my way out of this, but we may be headed for a
quick revert here.