Bump clap to 4.0.x and adjust to best practices (#12381)

* Bump clap to 3.2.22

* Replace `from_os_str` with `value_parser`

* Replace `from_str` and `try_from_str` with `value_parser`

* Move possible_values to the new format

* Remove unwanted print

* Add missing match branch

* Update clap to 4.0.9 and make it compile

* Replace deprecated `clap` macro with `command` and `value`

* Move remaining `clap` attributes to `arg`

* Remove no-op value_parsers

* Adjust value_parser for state_version

* Remove "deprecated" feature flag and bump to 4.0.11

* Improve range

Co-authored-by: Bastian Köcher <[email protected]>

* Apply suggestions

* Trigger CI

* Fix unused error warning

* Fix doc errors

* Fix ArgGroup naming conflict

* Change default_value to default_value_t

* Use 1.. instead of 0..

Co-authored-by: Bastian Köcher <[email protected]>