`approval distribution`: trigger assignment/votes resend based on approval checking lag (#7038)

* Send lag update message

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* Process ApprovalCheckingLagUpdate

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* Comput min age based on lag

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* fix comment

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* Fix tests

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* Fix test build

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* Make the spawnhandle optional

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* remove unused

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Signed-off-by: Andrei Sandu <[email protected]>