WIP: remove deprecated only/except clauses (#7229)

* change (CI): remove deprecated only/except clauses

* change (CI): remove

* change (CI): debug regex

* change (CI): regex shouldn't be surrounded with quotes in `rules`

* change (CI): no quotes in `rules`

* change (CI): debug workflow

* change (CI): almost equal

* change (CI): splinters

* change (CI): some details [chaos:basic]

* change (CI): add manual substrate build on PRs

* change (CI): mistake with publish-to-crates-io

* change (CI): reapproach chaos-only; rename rules anchors [skip ci]

* change (CI): add linux and mac to manual jobs for PRs [skip ci]

* change (CI): remove `pre-v` tags rules [skip ci]

* change (CI): add subkey for macos build as manual on PRs as well

* change (CI): add glob to match every changed file in monitoring

* test (CI): [chaos:basic]