xcm: fix for DenyThenTry Barrier (#7169)

Resolves (partially):
https://github.com/paritytech/polkadot-sdk/issues/7148 (see _Problem 1 -
`ShouldExecute` tuple implementation and `Deny` filter tuple_)

This PR changes the behavior of `DenyThenTry` from the pattern
`DenyIfAllMatch` to `DenyIfAnyMatch` for the tuple.

I would expect the latter is the right behavior so make the fix in
place, but we can also add a dedicated Impl with the legacy one
untouched.

## TODO
- [x] add unit-test for `DenyReserveTransferToRelayChain`
- [x] add test and investigate/check `DenyThenTry` as discussed
[here](https://github.com/paritytech/polkadot-sdk/pull/6838#discussion_r1914553990)
and update documentation if needed

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Co-authored-by: Branislav Kontur <bkontur@gmail.com>
Co-authored-by: Francisco Aguirre <franciscoaguirreperez@gmail.com>
Co-authored-by: command-bot <>
Co-authored-by: Clara van Staden <claravanstaden64@gmail.com>
Co-authored-by: Adrian Catangiu <adrian@parity.io>