Remove `Backend::destroy_state` (#5068)

* Remove `Backend::destroy_state`

This removes the `destroy_state` function of `Backend` and instead moves
the functionality into the `Drop` implementation of the state. This
makes it much easier to work with the state, as the user no longer needs
to call` destroy_state` manually. However, it requires that we switch
from `RwLock` to `ReentrantMutex` as while importing a block we maybe
need to lock again in `drop`.

* Bring back the `RwLock` and some other clean ups

* Fix compilation