Adds support for returning a custom header from `validate_block` (#825)

* Adds support for returning a custom header from `validate_block`

This adds support for returning a custom header from `validate_block`. Before this, we always
returned the header of the block that was validated (and still do it by default). However, after
this pr it is possible to set a custom header or better custom head data that will be returned
instead from `validate_block`. This can be for example when a chain wants to fork.

* FMT