client/beefy: add more metrics for production visibility (#12910)

* few beefy metrics

* more beefy metrics

* some beefy metrics

* some beefy metrics

* more metrics

* other metrics

* fix tests

* merge changes

* Apply suggestions from code review

* client/beefy: fix metrics

* client/beefy: separate metrics per component, avoid double registering

* client/beefy: deduplicate metrics registration code

* remove unused metric

* impl review suggestions

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Co-authored-by: Adrian Catangiu <[email protected]>