update most of the dependencies (#1946)

* update tiny-keccak to 0.2

* update deps except bitvec and shared_memory

* fix some warning after futures upgrade

* remove useless package rename caused by bug in cargo-upgrade

* revert parity-util-mem *

* remove unused import

* cargo update

* remove all renames on parity-scale-codec

* remove the leftovers

* remove unused dep