Squashed 'bridges/' changes from 09215c57eb..06fbe8bbbb

06fbe8bbbb Improved `ExportXcm::validate` implementation for BridgeHubs - step 1 (#2727)
390e836db4 Select header that will be fully refunded in on-demand batch finality relay (#2729)
ce701ddcb6 separate constants for average and worst case relay headers (#2728)

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