ws server: reject too big response (#553)

* ws server: don't kill connection max limit exceeds

* Update ws-server/src/server.rs

* actually use max size in soketto

* rewrite me

* improve logs

* use soketto fix

* rewrite me

* fix nit

* revert unintentional change

* use soketto 0.7.1

* fix logger

* Update ws-server/src/server.rs

Co-authored-by: David <[email protected]>

* Update ws-server/src/server.rs

Co-authored-by: David <[email protected]>

* Update ws-server/src/server.rs

Co-authored-by: David <[email protected]>

* Update ws-server/src/server.rs

Co-authored-by: David <[email protected]>

* Update ws-server/src/server.rs

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* fix build

* reject too large response

* fix some DRY code

* feat: bounded serializer for RpcModule

* Update utils/src/server/helpers.rs

Co-authored-by: Maciej Hirsz <[email protected]>

* Update utils/src/server/helpers.rs

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* address grumbles: safety and other nits

* address grumbles: MaxCallSize on closures instead

* Update utils/src/server/helpers.rs

Co-authored-by: David <[email protected]>

* use max response size on errors too

* Revert "use max response size on errors too"

This reverts commit 3b07e42d257b2eebae311b92b7f72594d94d5f87.

* include max limit in error response

Co-authored-by: David <[email protected]>
Co-authored-by: Maciej Hirsz <[email protected]>