Allow capping the amount of work performed when deleting a child trie (#7671)

* Allow Backend::for_keys_in_child_storage to be aborted by the closure

* Ext::kill_child_storage now takes an upper limit for backend deletion

* Add Storage::storage_kill_limited() runtime interface

* review: Use a new version of kill_storage instead of a new interface

* review: Simplify boolean expression

Co-authored-by: cheme <[email protected]>

* review: Rename for_keys_in_child_storage

Co-authored-by: cheme <[email protected]>